जिंदगी का कश

सड़क किनारे बैठा फ़कीर उस कम उम्र के लड़के से बोला, " बेटे अगर जिंदगी का मज़ा लेना ही है तुझे तो मेरी ये बात हमेशा याद रखना"

नवयुवक कुछ झिझका और अपने हाथ में दबी हुई सिगरेट के आख़री कश को भरपूर इस्तेमाल करने के बाद उसे पैरों तले फेकते हुए बोला.

"हां दद्दू बताओ" और पंजो के बल बैठ कर उनकी बात को कुछ ध्यानपूर्वक सुनने का प्रयास करता है।

साथ वाला लड़का कुछ उखड़े मन से पहले वाले को देखता है।

असल में वह इसलिए लाल हो रखा था क्यूंकि वो आख़री कश लेने मे विफल रहा और स्वयं को ठगा सा महसूस कर रहा था आखिरकार उस सिगरेट की कीमत अदायगी जो कि थी उसने ।

और तो और पहले लड़के ने दद्दू की बात को महत्व ही इस कारण दिया था, कि वह अंतिम कश को बिना किसी साझे के निपटा सके। हालांकि

फ़कीर आगे बोला,"किसी रईस घर के लगते नहीं तुम क्यूंकि उस आख़री कश जो जिस निर्ममता से तुमने खीचा है बिरला ही करे, लेकिन शरीर चुस्त है तेरा तभी ये बात मै तुझे बताता हूं" 

"जिंदगी का हमेशा रस लेना बेटा कभी भी इस जिंदगी का धुंआ मत लेना , क्योंकि अगर तू जिंदगी से रस लेगा तो बाद के लिए बचेगा वो है खाद, लेकिन अगर तू इससे धुएं को लेगा तो निश्चित ही आख़िर मे राख ही मिलनी है।"

खाद नए जीवन को आंकुरित करती है, लेकिन राख तो हर तरह से बेकार है जो सिर्फ और सिर्फ कालिख दे सकेगी।" 

फ़कीर की बात सुनकर लड़का ज़मीन पर हाथ रख कर उठा फिर हाथ झाड़ते हुए 5 रुपए फ़कीर को थमा दिए और अपने साथी कि तरफ़ बेशर्मी से देखकर बोला आओ चलें और दोनों जोर से हंसे और चल दिए।

:- हिमांशु तिवारी ।

Bonding we need

Firstly Thanks for reading my previous sessions............

If you have not read them yet...go and read it now

1.Atom_as_life

2.Valency_as_willingness

                     

We'd paved the way to positivism, and also inclined willingness to character building now we should move gradually to our third and final session of this series....

I want to start from  base about the term "Bonding".

Bonding is link between two atoms , absolutely, It is of different kinds and we all read it in chemistry......
but here I'm going to define it with a different spark....
Scientifically we all  know  it, but ,
Are we aware with the social aspect of "Bonding we need"?
If the answer is negative then you must read the blog.....
So let's start it .
Actually, here we'll only disscus "Covalent bonding" due to its relevancy to us
Covalent bond is not the bond of giving or receiving.
It is the bond where two entity shares a single electron with mutual benefits.
In society we need such type of bonding among people from where a common way to development evolve and
it is important, not only, as it gives an idea of mutual development ,but also, because it is the bond which is applied by nature on biotic system in bulk.....
Basically nature try to reflect the notion of sharing  by endorsing it....
Nevertheless we "The Human" are not getting it and not living the life to it's fullest . We are blemishing the charm of  bonding by practicing the Ionic Bonding, which have greed of accumulation of charges of power, money, and authority.
Actually, Society have been fragmented for personal and communal intrest........ which is deviating our focus from mutual growth and covalent factors.
Now
Let me allow to put you in a hypothetical situation..
As it's a blog so you can't resist 😅 so here we go for it........
Assume you are in another country and having no one to talk with and suddenly you found someone of your country......then what will you do next......
If I'm right you'll go straight to her/him and will surely talk to him/her irrespective of her/his religion, caste, or state... but if that place were your locality you would probably ignore that wo(man). And that's  the only reason behind your being ignored at other places
So I just suggest to be responsive to everyone and also be that guy who have a reply to every response..... that's how we can create a covalently bonded society and be at peace 🙂🤞✌️✌️.
I know it's abridged blog to define such a vital subject and also sorry for that.
But as many of my dear friends suggested me that I should come out of my utopian world and write some serious issues. So all three blogs were my vision of living at peace along with estacy and it doesn't declare that I overlook present scenario. That's why I am going to publish next few blogs on major problems in india as well as in institutions....
Many of my friends asked for hindi version of my articles so from next session each and every blog will be in English and in Hindi also ❤️ and please share my blog ,at least,with four of your friends, to appreciate my effort. 

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Valency as Willingness

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As we discussed earlier resemblance of an atom to life now we are heading towards its various phenomena.

So if you have not read my first session please go and read it 👉👉Click Here 

I'd mention one of the interim properties of atom

i.e Valency , and also raised a common doubt regarding it, that is ,how valency has impact over the way to attain positivism.

I define valency as willingness not as power to shed electrons and here's the difference that matters. We all have valency or willingness, but for what, either for gaining or for shedding electrons of cheat , hatred, envy and discontentment .

It means valency is just what our character is, but,character somewhat or totally depends on what we'd learnt since birth and it can be mislead thoroughly...........

Nelson Mandela had said ,

"People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite."

                

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To be positive or negative always depends on your call. 

Willingness is just thirst & by giving the motive of self-monitoring to this. We can easily shed our electrons of greed immoral and animosity.

Whenever we try to substitute our faux pas or, I would better say , whenever we try to recognise our priorities by keeping all chaos aside , our spirit acts ill at ease .

This happens because , when we move towards positivism , all the negative entities start to manipulate our willingness developed for asceticism. So it's natural and we can easily get over it by meditation and self-supervision

So there is something which cannot be neglected and it is character building because all all among us don't have such intellect from beginning of journey .

And remember one thing by helping others or by doing well being we can only make their struggles at ease, which is good, but it would not help you even a bit in achieving chaste character. And it can only be done by achieving positivism.

So whenever you realise of being on wrong track its your duty to find the way to track leading positivism.

That's how  we start gaining ground on positivism so here's an initiative for next session.

That is Bonding . It is a term or entity which cannot be underestimated while discussing life as atom. Atom have bondings of some distinct kind but covalent bonding is what we looking for.

Because it is something which is ideal and holding the funda of mutual growth and well being. So stay tuned for our next session "Covalent-bond-need of time "

And please spread optimism by sharing this with your friends and family ❤️🙏💙

So Now I'm binding up with a quote as I always do....

"HEAVEN OR HELL where we belong will be an outcome of our Character....... and that's why Character building should be our top most priority"

        

         

                  

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Atom of life

In our life, we are quite familiar with the terms like, " fiasco, epitome, positivism, negativism, dedication, will power" and so on.................

The list is endless and so are words, and some of these words are often used by those, who try to make the way and try to be the harbinger of motivation and make people reach their life goals.

The "Life goals", there is something in these two words. The gist of these words, lets you take the stand, let you make your maiden stuff unforgettable.

But, do you ever think, from where you are getting that dedication to make your threshold reach that glory. It comes from positivism.

And how this positivity develops!

From my serene perspective, each and every life on this planet resembles ATOM in many aspects.

Yes as per the present scenario, all of us are being surrounded with electrons of hatred, greed, discontentment, and envy.

But our positivity relies on the deepest part of our hearts as an atom have.

When we look for humane, benevolence, and leniency in society and unfortunately fail to get the same in (WO)MEN then what we do at the very next moment. We start criticizing society.

But wait and think for a second, "are we not a part of the society?" 

And if the answer is affirmative, then it would be our topmost priority to be that "generous kind Paragon".

So that no one can criticize that society of which you are a part, because what we are looking for, is there in this universe but it is not Omnipresent and it should be our goal to make it happen.

That's how everyone can initiate the journey to achieve positivism.

I am mentioning here a new factor viz 'valency'.

We are discussing atoms so how can valency be isolated. In our relevance, it is like capability or willingness to shed the electrons of negativity, default, mistakes, etc.

Many of you people are now getting confused because valency states both gain and release of electrons then how atom resembles life.

So I am here to clear your doubts, but first try to reach bases yourself and we will discuss this in the next session "valency as willingness". Now I am binding up with a quote as I always do........

    

                 "LIFE is an ATOM of POSITIVITY, NEGATIVITY, and NEUTRALITY.....

So shed more of your electrons to be more positive"

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